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No matter what type of person you are looking for, be it a black single in New York or a black single in Chicago, chances are you will find that type of person on e Harmony.Out of all the black singles you may meet online, very few of those individuals are actually compatible with you, and it can be challenging to determine the level of compatibility of a potential partner through traditional online dating methods – browsing profiles and photos.It’s not that I have a problem with White people who are genuinely curious as to why it is considered inappropriate, but it’s the fact that you’re making me answer the question as if I am representative of the entire race.Believe it or not, we’re not all the same, and some of us have differing views.Don’t take this the wrong way, it’s not that I mind discussing it, but I just feel like these issues shouldn’t be the first things you think of when we go for a first date.So all I remind you of is affirmative action, healthcare, and the Trayvon Martin case? Source: Shutterstock For some reason, some White guys feel the need to prove that they are some sort of civil rights activist.It won’t make me think you’re cooler; it will only make me think that you’re trying too hard.
This sort of reminds me of the times when White people say something inappropriate, and get accused of racism, but then quickly reply “There’s no way I’m racist because my friend is Black.” Although, the issue with your date wouldn’t be racism, the conclusion is still the same.For all you know, I could actually really like alternative or rock music.The point is, stop trying to prove to me that you’re “down” with whatever.This usually involves sharing some sort of heroic story where they once combatted racism.The story usually ends with “I told them no because you should not judge someone by the color of their skin” or “I said you shouldn’t do that because it’s racist.” Can we just have a normal date where we talk about what we like to do for fun or what we do for a living?
Shutterstock One of the worst things a White man can do on a date is re-enforce Black stereotypes, even if it’s in a joking way. Because that tells me that you are simply judging me by my skin even though one would think you wouldn’t do that (after all, you are on a date with a Black woman).